I got some good marriage advice yesterday while chatting with Ms. Judy.
I actually got a lot, but I really liked this tidbit:
- When you have those moments that you can’t stand the other person, and it’s all you can do to just be in the room with them… just smile. Smile and think about the fact that you choose to be with this person. Smile and remind yourself that times like these come and go. Smile, because you love them and you don’t know how long you will get to be with them.
I love it. I think it is so terribly important through this wedding planning process, to remember that I love Chet. And that this is just a wedding.
It is just a wedding.
No matter the fights, the headaches, the joys or the sorrow, this is just a wedding.
The marriage is what we should focus on.